Whether it’s Facebook, Twitter or Google Plus+, social networks are some of the most popular sites online. One aspect similar between them is the ability to post brief updates on your thoughts and life. It’s a quick way to find out what’s up with the people you’re most interested in checking up on. They could be anyone from your co-workers, friends, relatives or high school classmates you haven’t talked to face-to-face in more than 20 years.
There are many positive and negative aspects to social networks, but for now let’s just take the simple updates (also known as microblogs).
There seem to be a few general categories for these types of updates:
1.) Good news
2.) Neutral news
3.) Bad news
4.) Calls to action
Certainly it can be a fine thing to share the above types of news with others, but understanding the types you tend to write will help you better understand yourself and your thinking.
Do you tend to share the good stuff that happens to you? Does it make you feel a bit superior or feel better about yourself? Are you simply grandstanding without realizing it?
In regard to neutral news, to what end do you announce on the Internet your full itinerary for the day? Is social networking ingrained in you? Are you lonely and want to share the little things in your life with others through status updates?
Do you relate bad news for people to empathize with you? Is it a way to wallow in your own sorrows?
Do you promote candidates or issues you feel strongly about? Do you try to rally the troops? Out of all forms of status updates out there, these could be the most beneficial. Of course, it depends on how often you do it and if others in your social network are of the same mindset. But surely social networks have helped to strengthen people in their convictions as well as to divide them.
It’s one thing to know how you operate (be it with social networks or other aspects of your life) and it’s another to know why you operate a certain way. Take some time to think about why you post what you do. Think about the type of post you gravitate toward. It may help your personal improvement and attitude on life.