Defending Life



As very important as prayer is to the Pro-Life Movement, there are many other ways to be active in your community:

* attend pro-life banquets and other fundraisers

* donate financially to pro-life organizations

* donate your time through volunteer opportunities at your local pro-life centers

* study up on the common arguments for abortion, euthanasia, embryonic stem cell research, etc. so you can clearly explain how they are violations against human life

* attend the annual March for Life, Walk for Life and/or Life Chain

* pray outside local abortion clinics

What are your favorite ways to support the Pro-Life Movement?

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Boundaries isn’t a Bad Word



Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend explain the importance of setting boundaries in one’s life and relationships in the 1992 book Boundaries: When to Say YES, When to Say NO to Take Control of Your Life.

It’s something many of us don’t consciously think about as we go about our day, but setting boundaries and keeping them influences nearly everything we do in regard to family members, friends, children, work and even ourselves.

There are chapters in Boundaries dedicated to all these situations and more. It’s a helpful guide for recognizing poor boundary-setting and learning how to improve our relationships. There is peace from God through understanding healthy boundaries and realizing you aren’t neglecting your duties in life if you don’t consent to everything others want from you.

It’s beautiful the way that Cloud and Townsend also discuss God and boundaries. They remind us that God shows us the importance of boundaries. He does not push Himself on us. If we turn our back on Him, He does not force us to obey. If He did, He would not be respecting our free will.

Do you find boundary-setting difficult?

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God’s Presence in Troubled Times



On my way to work each day, I pass by this church, which is blocked off in front by heavy road construction that’s been going on for the last month or so.

I don’t know if the church intended the sign to mean more than that there’s an entrance on the other side of the building, but I found the sign worth reflecting upon.

When we are weighed down by our sins, faults and imperfections, it’s important to remember that God is patient and merciful, never giving up on us. He’s there through the construction that is happening right in our own heart and soul.

Catholic Flicks, Anyone?



If you’re looking to get your fill of Catholic films but can’t spend 20-plus dollars on each individual one, there are a few secular rental Web sites that offer a great variety of faith-building, educational and dramatic films.

Blockbuster at Home and Netflix both offer movies like The Flowers of St. Francis, Pope John Paul II and The Song of Bernadette. Netflix, in fact, even offers the EWTN TV series G.K. Chesterton: Apostle of Common Sense and programs by Servant of God Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen.

What are some of your favorite Catholic flicks?

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Fortifying Your Faith



For those interested in learning more about the Catholic Church and enriching their spiritual lives through listening to conference presentations, Lighthouse Catholic Media offers a great opportunity. Through their CD of the Month Club, you can have Catholic talks mailed right to your house. And many parishes throughout the U.S. offer the Lighthouse CDs by means of a kiosk display in the back of church.

The presentation topics range so widely that there’s something for everyone. Available talks include “A Walk Through the New Mass Translation,” by Dr. Edward Sri; “My Brother the Pope,” by Monsignor Georg Ratzinger; “Seven Reasons to be Catholic,” by Dr. Peter Kreeft; and “There is Life in the Womb,” by Servant of God Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen.

If you haven’t seen one of these kiosks around, consider helping to bring one to your church. It will not only benefit your spiritual life but also those of your fellow parishioners.

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It’s a Catholic College, but is it Catholic?



While the term “Catholic college” seems self-explanatory, that isn’t always the case. More often than not, it isn’t the case.

If a college includes religious order faculty members, was started by an order or has a saint’s name attached to the title, it’s typically called a “Catholic college.”

But those two words together may give a school a far higher standard than it lives up to. Many colleges started out as truly Catholic, faithful to the Magisterium, but have since been bought by independent secular organizations and have become secular institutions. Their mission statements might still mention the schools are Catholic in tradition. Many wouldn’t see a difference and would send their children there, expecting just the same faithful education as parents who send their children to colleges that have professed fidelity to the Magisterium.

As one school year closes, it’s time to consider college choices for the near future. A little research, word of mouth recommendations and school visitations can help prospective parents and students separate out the Catholic from the “Catholic” colleges.

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A Choice Is A Limitation



Christian speaker, author and former missionary Elisabeth Elliot wrote letters to her daughter Valerie eleven months before Valerie’s wedding. The letters were compiled and published as the 1976 book Let Me Be A Woman.

In these letters-turned-chapters, Elliot speaks to the beauty of womanhood that is given by the Lord.

Chapter title names include “Self-Discipline and Order,” “Love is Action,” and “Love Means a Cross.”

One of the most thought-provoking chapters is entitled, “A Choice Is A Limitation.” In it, Elliot makes simple but profound statements on marriage, vocation, and vows:

There have been many revisions and improvisations in modern weddings … In one of these improvisations the phrase has been changed from “as long as ye both shall live” to “as long as we both shall love.” This cuts the heart out of the deepest meaning of the wedding. It is a vow you are making before God and before witnesses, a vow you will by God’s grace keep, which does not depend on your moods or feelings or “how things turn out.” As others have said, love does not preserve the marriage, the marriage preserves love.

When you make a choice, you accept the limitations of that choice. To accept limitation requires maturity. The child has not yet learned that it can’t have everything. What it sees it wants. What it does not get it screams for. It has to grow up to realize that saying Yes to happiness often means saying No to yourself. … To choose to do this is to choose not to do a thousand other things. … To do this is not to do that. To be this is not to be that. To be a woman is not to be a man. To be married is not to be single — which may mean not to have a career. To marry this man is not to marry all the others. A choice is a limitation.

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The Parental View on the Tube



When you think of specific examples of parents in television shows, which characters come to mind? How are they portrayed?

In recent years, the role of parents has been turned on its head. And respect for parents is virtually gone, as well as the belief that they are the models they are called to be.

The most influential of programs are those targeted toward young people. And two of the most popular networks for the youth come from Disney and Nickelodeon.

On Disney Channel’s Good Luck, Charlie, the parents are oftentimes very immature and are insulted by their children without consequence.

The N’s (now known as TeenNick) second-highest rated program a few years ago, Instant Star, had so many parental problems, it can be difficult to know where to begin. So here’s a quick summary:

  • Dad is the more likeable parent of the main character but cheats on her mom. He isn’t remorseful except in how the affair hurt his two daughters.
  • After divorce the mom gets in a relationship with her divorce lawyer, marries him shortly after and leaves the country, never to be seen again in the next few seasons of the show.
  • Dad had been kicked out by Mom after the affair but comes back to live with daughters after Mom takes off. Dad seems like the good guy. The “other woman” is never mentioned again so we don’t know whether he’s still seeing her or not.
  • Dad decides to take an extended overseas soul-search early in the last season and never returns to the program. The daughters are living without either parent for the remainder of the series. At this point the daughters are 18 and early 20s.

What’s the moral of the story? That parents are messed up and irrelevant? That life is better without them?

How have you seen parents portrayed on television?

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National Day of Prayer



The 61st annual observance of the National Day of Prayer will be held Thursday, May 3rd. But you don’t have to wait until then to pray for our nation (I’m sure many of you pray every day). The following prayer is from the home page of the official Web site for the National Day of Prayer:

Heavenly Father,

Every good gift and perfect gift comes from You. You are a faithful God and Your mercy endures forever.

You have promised to bless the nation that trusts in You.  Our currency proclaims “In God We Trust,” but in our culture we are far from You.

In the words of the prophet Daniel, “We have sinned and committed iniquity, we have done wickedly and rebelled, even by departing from Your precepts and Your judgments.”

We come before You once more, seeking Your forgiveness and mercy.  You, O God, are our only hope… Hear our prayer and, for Your honor’s sake, shine Your face upon this nation.

Give our leaders the desire to seek Your wisdom and the courage to follow Your guidance… and watch over the men and women of our armed forces as they sacrifice for the cause of freedom.

We give You thanks for all You have done for us, and we earnestly pray that You will help us become, once again, a nation whose God is the Lord.

In the name of Your Son, and our Savior, we pray this prayer.

Amen

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What’s a Personal Prelature?



On my recent posting on The Forge by St. Josemaria Escriva I received the following comment by John:

I love the priests I know from opus dei but I must admit I have a really hard time understanding the difference between an Order and a Personal Prelature.

Below you’ll find a brief explanation by Fr. Marty Moleski, a Jesuit priest and professor at Canisius College in Buffalo, New York. I have the privilege of sharing the airwaves with him each Friday on the Calling All Catholics radio program, produced by The Station of the Cross.

I thank him for contributing this week to Media Musings:

Religious orders are voluntary associations of the faithful characterized by taking vows and following a common rule of life. Their roots lie in the religious communities founded by Sts. Basil, Augustine, Benedict, Scholastica, Francis, Clare, Ignatius, Angela de Merici, John Baptist de la Salle, and a host of other great saints. The key to the life of religious orders is the vow of obedience to the superiors of that religious community. This allows the members of the order to share a common life and to act together as one body.

The canonical organization of Opus Dei (personal prelature) bears a greater resemblance to the structure of a diocese rather than to that of a religious order. Under the guidance of a bishop (the “prelate”), other bishops, priests, deacons, religious and laity, married or unmarried, may each follow their particular vocations, with the vows or promises proper to their different states in life, just as we find in any diocese of the Church. Unlike a diocese, a prelature is united by dedication to an apostolate rather than presence in a geographic region.

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